
Home Funeral & Green Burial Services
Sustainable Practices for the Care of Our Own Dead
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Pastor Kyle has always been a bit on the morbid side; he is a NHFA Proficient Home Funeral Guide (as defined by the National Home Funeral Alliance, homefuneralalliance.org) endeavoring to recapture the centuries old sustainable care for our dead within our community. PK educates the greater community we are a part of within greater Boston on green burial practices and caring for our own dead at home.
What You Can Expect From Your Home Funeral Guide
Home Funeral Guides may charge for any of the following services:
Educational Services
Teach/show/demonstrate to the family how to care for a body after death
Public presentations about family-directed funerals
Teaching in a classroom setting
In-service training for medical professionals and others
Community and spiritual care group training
Training other home funeral guides/workshops
Consulting Services
Family consultations about natural death care
Planning details of a home vigil with the family
Skype or phone coaching of family during the home funeral
Coordinating services when funeral firms are involved
Coordinating services when clergy, celebrants, spiritual or community groups and organizations are involved
Assisting individuals in completing advance directives
Celebrant Services
Assisting in organizing or planning the memorial service
Coordinating or facilitating a ceremony at a home vigil, funeral, memorial, graveside, church, life celebration rituals, ceremonies or services with prayer/song
Providing emotional and spiritual support to the family prior to, during, or after the death
Coordinating church and/or graveside funeral services
Facilitation Services
Time spent locating caskets, urns, shrouds, or other products
Time spent coordinating or confirming disposition in states where a licensed funeral director is not required by law to do so
Time spent coordinating family logistics, including pick-ups of travelers, meals, containers, prior to and/or during the funeral period
Travel expense reimbursement for services such as picking up and delivering cremated remains, running errands
Support Services
Acting as a liaison for the family as needed
Providing follow-up support after final disposition
Support with house preparation for home vigil
Overseeing/providing the food or flowers for home vigil
Voluntary Home Funeral Guide Services
Home Funeral Guides provide support by invitation of the family but may not charge for any or all of these services:
Any and all hands-on preparation of the body (bathing, use of essential oils, dressing)
Providing and/or monitoring the cooling technique at the home vigil
Contacting the crematory or cemetery
Filing the necessary paperwork for the family
Helping the family move the body from car to the grave or crematory
Using own private vehicle to transport the body for the family
Mediating family decisions regarding care and responsibilities
Offering grief counseling (must have a license to practice)
Acting as durable power of attorney or designated agent (written, available depending on your state)
Family Responsibilities
With or without voluntary support by a Home Funeral Guide, the person acting as Funeral Director/Agent is responsible for:
Providing appropriate space for the family to tend to the loved one for the duration
Filing and procurement of all legal documents with support as needed
Providing items for the personal care of the loved one
Notifying all parties as is legally necessary
Making all decisions regarding the handling and disposition of their loved one
Purchasing containers and final disposition plots
Paying for all goods and services pertaining to the death and disposition
Hiring of any additional services, including a funeral home for partial services
Bathing, handling, and transporting the body
Enlisting 4-6 people to help with moving the body
Creating and organizing funeral or memorial plans with or without the help of a Home Funeral Guide
Disclaimer:
The information provided using this web site is only intended to be general summary information to the public. it is not intended to take the place of either the written law or regulations. The inclusion of any links does not necessarily imply a recommendation or endorse the views expressed within them.
Home Funeral Guides empower and educate families to conduct after-death care themselves as their state law allows. They may charge for educational and consultative services only; all voluntary services are performed free of charge and at the request of the family.
Home Funeral Guides do not arrange funerals; they support the family in their own efforts to plan and make connections to goods and services.
Home Funeral Guides who offer both goods and services are subject to the Federal Trade Commission’s Funeral Rule and must provide a written General Price List upon request.